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Thursday, September 2, 2010

Gender "experts" need to be confronted with true manliness


Something quite remarkable is happening in Sweden lately. We are educating gender “experts”, whose job it is to confuse children’s sense of gender.

They want boys to be girls and girls to be boys.

It is hard to figure out which lobby group is behind this policy, but it is easy to see that it is throwing our entire society into upheaval. Even those who teach the lectures, for example a professor in gender studies, are having problems with their own sexual identity.

There are good men and there are bad men. There is a false manly ideal. But men are men! Women are women. I respect that people are different, and that they have different sexual preferences. So why can’t the people who aren’t like me respect that we, who are heterosexuals, are men and women? Why is it so hard to understand that the connection between a newborn child and its mother is stronger than between the child and the father? Isn’t that obvious?!

In the same way, it is obvious that girls play with dolls; it is preparation for the day when they give birth to their first child. Men can’t give birth to children! But they can help, protect, and lovingly take care of the newborn child and mother.

Games at pre-school are a preparation for the way of life that is pre-programmed into our genes. Keeping a child from playing out what he or she has on the inside is one of the worst ways to help our children. What happens instead is that an inner pressure builds up that sooner or later will need an outlet.

True manliness can be suppressed and destroyed in many different ways, and there isn’t enough room to develop that in this blog. But one way is this hidden, unspoken pressure that we have in our society. In the pursuit of equality and fear of oppressing women we have also created contempt for men.

This is counterproductive, because our society needs men and women! In the same way that men need to learn about women, women need to learn about men. We aren’t alike, we aren’t going to be alike and we never will be alike.

The solution? Recognize and accept the differences and talk about, teach and help men and women to develop true, loving, constructive and caring gender roles.

Today it seems like the altar of materialism is more important than people. The genetically-programmed need for nearness that the mother and child have at the beginning is being attacked with a materialistic argument.

Of course men and women have identical salaries, and if the mother wants to stay at home with her children that should be a merit, and just as good a reason to get a raise as if they had worked.

God created us male and female. The politicians who zealously push for equally dividing paternal and maternal leave, and for forcing fathers to stay at home are also the ones who push for gender role experimentation in our pre-schools. This is all grounded in a rebellion against God, and it is a sign of the times, a part of the man of lawlessness.

In October I will be teaching on TRUE MANPOWER. I believe in women, and I believe that they are fantastic. BUT, I also believe in MEN. Manliness is being suppressed today. It is causing confusion: we don’t need Rambos – we need men after God’s own heart. That is what I am going to go into on October 30.

I owe it not only to the men of our time, but to all boys and young men.